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Julie| April 24, 2008 10:03 pm

Today I read about this violent hate crime against an Asian guy in nearby San Dimas. Kevin and I lived there for about a year before the kids were born. It was a very homogeneous place. Aside from the employees at the one single decent Chinese fast food place in town, I rarely saw another Asian face. There was a passable coffee house where we hung out along with the other college kids, but the jeering from the loud drunk faux cowboys who went line-dancing at the bar upstairs sometimes made it a less than pleasant experience. By the time Alex was born we were living elsewhere, thank goodness, and when we started house-hunting we didn’t even bother looking in San Dimas. In my ideal town, no ethnic group would be in the majority, and while Walnut looks like it’s headed to become yet another Asian ‘burb, at least for now it’s still fairly diverse.

Nursery

Here’s a picture of the nursery as it looks now. Kevin has installed most of the chair rail (slim piece of wood in the middle of the wall) and base moulding (wide piece of wood at the bottom of the wall). He did an amazing job. Trust me when I say the picture doesn’t do it justice.

Today was going to be my last day at work before going on leave, but I called in sick. I spent most of the day lying on the sofa in a daze. I figured it was my body’s way of getting me some rest before having to deal with the exhaustion of labor, which incidentally has not started yet.

Lists

Julie| April 18, 2008 11:00 pm

To Do List:

1. Pack for hospital, including admittance paperwork.
2. Finish remodeling the nursery and move all furniture back in.
3. Wash and put away all 0-3 month baby clothes.
4. Buy car seat and two bases.
5. Early bird registration for Alex’s after school care and Ana’s preschool.
6. Bring home all work stuff I’ll need during my leave.
7. Miscellaneous other work projects.

Things we just crossed off the list:

1. Buy size 1 diapers.
2. Test the breast pump to see if it still works.
3. Take Ana on a tour of the preschool she’ll be attending in the fall.
4. Talk to kids about baby proofing the living room.

In addition to the baby proofing talk, we also cleaned the entire living room. It took all four of us over an hour, maybe almost two, to pick up and put away every piece of kid debris off the sofa and the floor so that we could vacuum without sucking up something that would break the machine. I did not take before/after photos because it would scare childless folks into never having kids.

I just finished reading Helping Me Help Myself: One Skeptic, Ten Self-Help Gurus, and a Year on the Brink of the Comfort Zone, by Beth Lisick. I almost didn’t make it past the first chapter because I found her writing lacking compared to some of the bloggers I read daily. Plus I didn’t like her personality. By the end of her year-long odyssey, I felt like I could almost enjoy her as a casual acquaintance, but her relentless cynicism would probably keep us from becoming close friends.

Progress

Julie| April 10, 2008 11:59 pm
nursery in progress

Nursery: 60% finished, with stripes, chair rail, and flooring left to go.

Me: +25 lbs at 37.5 weeks, with 2.5 weeks left to go.

Work: just gimme 3 uninterrupted days and I’ll be able to finish everything up.

Getting Ready

Julie| March 11, 2008 9:38 pm

Today I submitted my leave of absence paperwork. I’m taking off the tail end of April, plus all of May, June, July, and August. This by far will be the longest period I’ve ever been off work.

Meanwhile, Kevin is remodeling the nursery. He’s ripping out the carpet, installing wood floors, removing the popcorn ceiling, painting the walls two tone, installing a chair rail, and putting in new light fixtures.

I just realized after looking at Jenny’s pictures that I haven’t taken any pictures of my belly this entire pregnancy. Not that you’d be able to tell the difference from one week to the other anyway, considering how my uterus wasted no time stretching out. By late first trimester, even though the baby was only a tiny peapod, my belly was already as big as it is now. I guess that’s how things work after having two kids.

I’ve only got 6.5 weeks to go, unless baby#3 decides to come early. Alex was 2 weeks late and a touch under 8 lbs, and Ana was 1 day early and 7.5 lbs. If baby#3 follows their lead, she’ll be 2 weeks early and 7 lbs, hehe.

I'll Have a Hammerhead and a Chocolate Scone – You Have Free Wifi Here Right?

Kevin| January 4, 2008 9:12 pm

Julie sent me an excerpt from today’s Unshelved blog discussing a problem we’ve been banging our heads against for a while now. I’ll quote the pertinent section:

Our old family office had stations for me, my wife Sara, my housemate … Jana, and our kids. But while I work in the office 8 or more hours a day, everyone else just drops in for a half hour now and again. So now in addition to my permanent station the new office … has a nice old round wood table … two chairs, and a power strip (the printers and server went into a closet). Jana and Sara drift in, plug in their laptops, do some work, and drift out. The table is perfect for meetings (family and otherwise), paying bills, and the occasional need to spread out.

When we furnished our home office five years ago, Alex was two and Ana was still over a year off. The boy already had his own computer (for educational games) and we were planning on having another child so we decided to cram four desks into the smallest room of our house. The logic was that naturally everyone would need their own computer and that putting them all in the same room would give us the opportunity to keep an eye on the kids’ web browsing habits. We also felt strongly that each of the kids would need their own horizontal space for doing homework.

Well, five years went by and over time it has become pretty obvious that nobody goes into the study unless they absolutely must. The furniture is nice, the task lighting is adequate, and there’s a small window for natural light and fresh air. The problem is, when you put the necessary paperwork and office supply storage for running a family into the same small room as four desks it just becomes an unpleasant environment. As soon as Julie and I each had laptops, the study became storage rather than workspace. The allure of the cozy wingback chairs and sofa in the living room combined with the house-blanketing wifi was too great to resist. You get more work done (and have more fun doing it) when you’re in the most comfortable space. This is also the case for homework of course. Alex does his in the same place I did as a kid – at the dining room table while dinner is being prepared. We’re right there to help him through any problems and he has a vast, well-lit table to spread out on and be more productive.

In the ensuing conversation we hammered out the details of our new workspace. It ended with Julie proclaiming her undying love for sofas and both of us anxious to clean off and disassemble two desks so there’s room for a sofa and a nice coffee table in their place. Eventually we’ll replace the two remaining desks with one big desk and lots of shelves/cubbies over it to hold the necessary stuff. The big desk will be for paying the bills, doing taxes, or anything else that requires having lots of paper out at once. The sofa and coffee table will be the perfect place (when combined with the existing lighting) for reading, blogging, uploading photos from our cameras, doing homework, etc. We’ve already replaced the home server with an NSLU2 and two Passports so our file server now requires about a quarter of a square foot of shelf space. The printers can go on an end table next to the sofa with USB cables an easy reach for nearby laptops. As a final touch, we’ll remove the (previously closed and blocked by a desk) door between the study and living room and close the one leading to the hallway instead. It will end up being a semi-secluded extension of the living room rather than a room in its own right.

Tonight Alex learned how to Google by watching me locate his favorite flash games. Julie wandered into the study this evening and found him on YouTube watching nintendo character related fan animation. After getting over the initial shock (and concern) we laughed about the coincidental timing. It’s going to be fun converting our old-school office into the home productivity equivalent of the corner coffee house. A place we can all hang out, get things done, and have fun together.